Wow megadude, you've been really hurt.
Well my parents have been great. They aren't dubs any longer but for me it's a no brainer. Of course I'd go. We all go to the KH whenever an old friend dies anyway. We're shunned but we go just to support people who used to be our friends.
My parents continue to forgive those that try to hurt them. They are decent people and I hope I can follow their example.